For the high-achieving woman who’s ready to banish burnout and take her career & life to the next level

Forget quitting your job and moving to an island.

GET READY FOR THRIVE.

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THRIVE is a 6-month private coaching program for high-achieving women who are ready to recover from burnout and reignite their energy on every level- physical, mental, and emotional.

STOP TRYING TO HUSTLE YOUR WAY OUT OF BURNOUT

You want your spark back- and badly!

But your efforts so far haven’t helped you get there.

Maybe you’ve learned some lessons (like what NOT to do), but no matter how hard you work at it… you still somehow backslide into old habits, more overwhelmed and exhausted than ever.

Quitting your job and reinventing your life sounds tempting when it looks like NOTHING will work to get you ‘unstuck’, revive your drive, and give you more time, balance, and peace of mind.

At this point, you’re even thinking of taking a leave of absence.

But the thing is... you’re COMMITTED to recovering your energy and finding balance between your career, your personal life, and your healthwithout throwing away everything you’ve worked so hard to achieve.

You've already tried:

  • Yoga and meditation- if only you could get your brain to turn off long enough for it to ‘work’.
  • Therapy, self-help books, and stress apps- but it just feels like you’re going in circles and not really seeing any change.
  • Vacations and retreats that uplift you for a week or two... until reality sinks back in.
  • Supplements and Rx meds to help you relax, sleep better, and boost your energy- but that didn’t produce lasting results.
  • Ignoring it all because you figure with time, things have to calm down, right? (wrong)

And so you keep returning to that familiar daily cocktail of caffeine to energize you, Netflix and wine to shut off your brain, and take-out to make feeding yourself easier. 

It’s like you’re living on a human hamster wheel… just trying to survive.

Suffice it to say- you’re tired of feeling tired, and ready for a different way!

TRUTH: the skills and mindset that propelled you to success in your career will NOT help with burnout.

I’ve seen women struggle with this over and over again- not to mention gone through it myself.

And that’s why I created THRIVE.

THRIVE is grounded in the truth that to heal burnout- and ascend to the next level in your life and career- you need a new approach: new skills, new mindsets, and support from someone who’s been there. 

**Productivity and time-saving hacks, while helpful, are simply NOT going to cut it.

In THRIVE, you’ll take first immediate steps to reignite your energy at a physical and mental level.

This foundation puts you in the right headspace to embark on the ‘harder’ work of overcoming patterns that burnt you out, setting boundaries, and taking action to realign your work and life with your core values.

All without having to quit your job or take a step back.

IN THRIVE, YOU'LL LEARN A HOLISTIC APPROACH

At its core, burnout is a state of extreme stress and depletion on every level. That’s why in THRIVE we’ll use a holistic approach to de-stressing and reigniting your energy.

In your 6 months in THRIVE, we'll focus on the following 3 objectives:

1. DE-STRESS THE BODY with foundational self care: the right nutrition, easy movement, and quality sleep.

Result >> you’ll restore your physical energy and cut down on brain fog.

2. DE-STRESS THE MIND through powerful routines to simplify your daily life, tools to regulate your nervous system and get out of “fight or flight”, and healthy boundaries.

Result >> you'll open up more time in your schedule, feel more ease and control, and experience less overwhelm and anxiety.

3. REIGNITE THE SPIRIT by rediscovering what you truly love to do and inserting it into your daily life, and re-aligning your life and career with your core values. 

Result >> you’ll feel more joy every day, a greater sense of purpose, and have the emotional energy to play with your kids, connect more deeply with your partner, and enjoy time with friends. Your creativity & drive at work will improve, too.

This holistic approach, personalized for you, is what makes THRIVE work.


WHO IS RIGHT FOR THRIVE?

THRIVE is for career-driven women with specific criteria.

The fact is, I can only work with a limited number of clients at any given time, and I only work with those who are prepared to show up and take action.

Healing burnout is a process involving body, mind, and spirit. It's imperative that you're truly ready for this level of personal growth and will make the most of your time in THRIVE to get here.

It's my MISSION to support ambitious women with big dreams create healthy, fulfilling, and impactful lives, but first we must make sure you're qualified (and ready) before we commit to working together in THRIVE.

THRIVE IS FOR YOU IF:

  • You know you're burnt out and want to eliminate symptoms like fatigue, poor sleep, and brain fog using a holistic approach that integrates seamlessly into your life.

  • You've got big career goals, but feel so depleted you wonder if you'll ever achieve them. You want someone who's been there to show you how to ascend to the next level at work, while also creating more ease, balance, and joy.

  • You've become irritable and on-edge, even with your partner and kids, and you feel guilty because you know that's not the 'real you'. You're ready to do what it takes to get stress under control so you can show up for the people who matter most.

  • You feel consumed by your job and to-do list, even when you're off the clock. You want to learn how to turn off your brain, let go, and have fun again!

  • You feel 'stuck'. You're NOT willing to settle but you're overwhelmed about how to start changing things. You want a plan of action that actually works, and unwavering support and accountability.

THRIVE IS NOT FOR YOU IF:

  • You're looking for a quick fix. Burnout recovery takes time. That's why THRIVE is 6 months.

  • You're not willing to be coached or step outside your comfort zone and experiment with new tools and strategies to get you where you want to go.

  • You're not prepared to make changes to diet and daily routines. Although the precise action steps you'll take are yours to choose, you must be willing to take consistent action.

  • You're unwilling to do the 'deep work' to identify your internal obstacles (e.g. perfectionism, overachieving...) and take action to overcome them so you never get burnt out again..

  • You're ok with continuing to 'wait and see' if things will get better on their own eventually.

HOW WE'LL WORK TOGETHER IN THRIVE


THRIVE is a 1-1 private coaching program. That means personalized support and guidance from me for the entire 6 months.

When we speak, I’ll explain it in more detail.

For now, what’s most important to know is that THRIVE has 3 components...

ASSESS & ENVISION

We start with a 90-minute coaching session, held over Zoom, to set the foundation for your time in THRIVE. We'll get clarity on where you're at and where you want to go, and co-create your 6-month action plan.

CONNECT & TAKE ACTION

We'll meet bi-weekly as you implement your burnout recovery plan. I'll support you in overcoming obstacles, holding you accountable, and pivoting when needed. We'll connect through email + text between sessions so you'll never be alone in your journey.

LEARN & GROW

I’ll provide all the resources you need, including trainings and exercises to help you identify + overcome the roots of your burnout, and resources for foundational self-care: recipes, guided breathwork sessions, and tools to improve your sleep, establish routines, and regulate your nervous system.

HERE'S WHAT YOU CAN LOOK FORWARD TO AS YOU MOVE THROUGH THRIVE

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ENERGY

You'll supercharge your physical, mental, and emotional energy so that when you wake up in the morning, you're excited for the day. You’ll have energy to focus at work, be there for the people you love the most, and reconnect with activities that bring you joy.

02

EASE

You'll learn to effectively handle stressors so that you experience less overwhelm and more ease every day, and feel confident that even though you can "do it all", you don't have to.

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IMPACT

You’ll heal burnout without quitting your job- instead, you’ll ascend to the next level in your career, whether that means working fewer hours, taking on a promotion, or pivoting to a position that’s more fulfilling. YOU get to decide what "success" means to you.

Energy + Ease + Impact all adds up to a balanced woman who’s in complete control of her life and moves through it with a strong sense of purpose.

Best of all, with the work you do in THRIVE, you’ll become virtually burnout-proof. You’ll know the warning signs of burnout and take early action so that you can preserve your balance and peace of mind.

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MEET YOUR COACH

Jennifer N. Costanza, PhD

I'LL BE YOUR GUIDE THROUGH THRIVE.

As an Ivy League-educated PhD and former sociology professor, I know from experience how a high-pressure, passion-driven career path can lead to burnout. I understand the burden of perfectionism that most women experience on a daily basis that leads us to de-prioritize our core needs and silence our inner voice. And I know what it’s like to wake up one day, look into the mirror, and wonder "who is this person?"

That was my life not long ago.

And so I embarked on a healing journey. I turned to food as medicine and became a holistic health coach. I got advanced training in gut health and trauma-aware approaches for regulating the nervous system, especially breathwork.

I healed my body, revived my energy, and learned to control stress- instead of allowing it to control me.

The intense drive that had propelled me so far in my academic career reawakened, but I've redirected it towards helping women like you banish burnout and transform your life using evidence-based, holistic strategies that work.


YOU CAN HAVE YOUR DREAM JOB- AND YOUR DREAM LIFE

At the end of the day, you ALONE have the power to change your situation: to create the ease, health, and fulfillment, and health you desire while having massive career success.

But what you’ve been doing hasn’t been working and it’s time for that to stop, today

You’re here reading this page because you’re an ambitious woman who’s 100% done with….

  • Trying all the productivity and time-saving hacks that are supposed to help you accomplish more at work and get you home at a decent hour…  but never seeing it make any difference.
  • Waking up exhausted and relying on caffeine and sugar for energy- but still finding yourself working nights or weekends because you just can't focus enough during the workday.
  • Doing the therapy, the self-help books, the meditation and yoga… yet you remain completely stuck and anxious, your relationships deteriorating.
  • Feeling so stressed and overwhelmed that you’re worried that no matter what you do, it won't work. Maybe taking a sabbatical or moving to Bali is the answer? Spoiler: it’s not.
  • Spinning your wheels but never seeing anything change, all while becoming more and more depleted and disconnected from things that used to light you up.

You’re tired of wasting time, money, and energy on methods that give you ZERO results. But you’re not ready to settle. And you KNOW things won’t change on their own.

You’re ready for REAL answers. REAL support. And a REAL plan to transform your health, your career, and your life once and for all.

You’re DONE with burnout.

WHICH IS WHY YOU'RE THE PERFECT CANDIDATE FOR THRIVE.

Because you know what happens when you finally learn to become burnout-proof?

  • You wake up every morning EXCITED for the day, because you’ve learned to fuel yourself with the right foods, prioritize basic self-care (without the guilt!) and re-align your career with your core values so you can have even greater impact.
  • You finally feel a sense of ease and control over your life because you’ve learned to confidently eliminate key stressors and regulate your nervous system, while letting go of everything that’s truly outside your control.
  • Your relationship with your partner deepens, you spend more quality time with your kids, and you reconnect with old hobbies that you love, because you’ve learned to unapologetically set boundaries with your time and energy, mastering work-life balance.

*Burnout recovery doesn't happen by accident*

It happens because you’ve followed an evidence-based process, taken consistent action, and received the right support to get where you want to go. 

If you’re ready to finally banish burnout and create the energy, ease, and impact you’ve been wanting- that balanced life- then let’s do this!

YES- I'M READY!

THRIVE RESULTS

I’m 110% committed to my clients inside of THRIVE. I know if you’re willing to do the work, you will see results. 

But I also understand that you’re not behind the scenes seeing the wins I’ve seen with my clients. So here are stories of a few high-achieving women, just like you, who are now thriving. 

"You’ve helped me switch gears in a way where it felt like I didn’t have to. I feel like I’m in a better place physically, mentally, and emotionally.

"If there’s anybody out there wondering what this experience would be like, I’d like to let them know that Jen, you do it in such a way that you assist without judgment, without criticism. You gently guide in the best direction for the person. I just felt really safe working with you on this. And I felt really happy to have someone on my side that was my cheerleader for myself, to help make me a better person, to give me a healthier lifestyle."

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CONSUELO B.

When Consuelo first reached out to me, she said her stress was at an 11 out of 10, she was exhausted all the time, and had been diagnosed with high cholesterol. Her doctor wanted to put her on medication, but Consuelo knew deep inside that there had to be a better way. 

Because she was so busy, Consuelo was hesitant about starting coaching, fearing that she’d need more time and a more open schedule to really focus on herself. But she came to realize that time would never come- and so she took the leap.

Over the course of her time in THRIVE, Consuelo gradually reworked her diet and began integrating stress management practices like breathwork and meditation into her daily life. By the end of the program, she no longer felt stress controlled her- instead, she was in control. She lost 10 lbs and lowered her cholesterol 30 points, removing the need for medication. With her newfound energy, Consuelo created a wellness program for military and veteran caregivers, and is now starting a non-profit organization.


"Prior to enrolling in the THRIVE program, I was at one of my lowest points in life both physically and mentally. I was in the midst of dealing with a health issue for a close family member while navigating the aftermath of a significant breakup and had recently overcome a serious case of shingles brought on by the increased levels of stress and anxiety…all while working two jobs. I found myself perpetually exhausted but unable to sleep through the night. My relationship with food was almost non-existent as I had no desire to cook or even eat at times given that it would make me feel sick to my stomach. I felt like I had lost sight of the woman I was and though I wanted so badly to find myself again, I struggled with how to do just that. I wanted to return to the happy, healthy, full of life young woman I once was.  

            "Throughout the 6 months, Jen expertly guided me through a series of goals we had set for the program. From creating a better sleep environment, to fostering a healthier relationship with eating/cooking and utilizing food to help heal the serious burnout effects I had been struggling with we set out to collaboratively work toward finding that balance in life I was missing.

"Would I recommend the Thrive program and holistic health coaching support that Jen expertly provides to others who may find themselves in similar situations to mine? Absolutely, YES! In just 6 short months I’ve truly turned my life around. I feel much more present in my life, in my relationships both with myself and those I love and above all recognized the importance of unapologetically putting my own wellbeing first among the stressors life throws our way. Jen’s consistent guidance, unwavering support and plethora of curated resources based upon my goals and identified needs truly paved the path I needed to walk to find myself again." 

DEANNA B.

When Deanna and I first spoke about working together in THRIVE, she’d been pushing herself hard for too long and had reached a breaking point. “I feel like I live in fight or flight mode and almost as if I am losing control of my body!” Her doctor had suggested anti-anxiety meds.

But she didn’t want that. She wanted to change. Deanna realized she’d been “giving 110%” to work and everyone else, and wanted to give herself the same so she could “wake up and say ‘I feel good today.’

With Deanna’s state of absolute exhaustion, dealing head-on with her big stressors was NOT a viable place to start- she didn’t have the bandwidth for it. So we set to work on the foundations: diet and sleep. Within a few weeks, Deanna was sleeping better than she had in years, and her energy had rebounded. 

She now had the capacity to tackle the big issues that were giving her so much stress in her life. She started setting better boundaries at work, rewiring destructive thought patterns, and letting go of the need to “fix” problems at her job that were objectively out of her control. Her feelings of stress and overwhelm began to dissipate.

By the end of our 6 months together, Deanna was a completely new person. She had the emotional energy to be social with friends and family. She was excited about life again and able to confidently handle big work and life stressors that popped up unexpectedly. And her physical health had improved so much that her mother commented how lustrous her hair looked!


"Within a couple weeks, I felt like I had more energy, which I did not think was possible. I made some small changes to my diet, started walking and exercising, and carving out time for myself in the morning. I learned to set better boundaries at work and now feel clear about what I really want my work life to look like. Stress is ongoing, but my ability to cope with it has improved. I notice now when anxiety comes up, and I know I can make a choice about whether to engage it."

ALICE H.

To say Alice was "tired" when she joined THRIVE would be an understatement. She wanted to nap every day and was struggling to balance a demanding career and two young kids. That stress- plus working from home for almost two years- was taking a toll. She knew she was working too much (often on weekends when she'd rather do fun stuff with her kids), felt frustrated and unsatisfied with her job, and admitted she was not taking good care of her health. She wanted to make changes in her health and career, but didn't know where to start or how to stay consistent.

We first got clear on Alice's goals- she had to get very honest with herself about what she wanted when it came to her career and how she wanted her daily life to look. This wasn't easy to figure out! We worked through some of her beliefs about what "success" looked like, so she could re-define it in her own terms.

Next, Alice started putting healthy habits in place: adjusting her diet, and finding ways to de-stress. She experimented to discover out what worked best for her. Once Alice started prioritizing her health and feeling better physically, she began taking bolder action at work: asking for what she wanted and setting firm boundaries around her time and what projects she was willing to take on. This required a lot of mindset work. Like so many brilliant, high performing women, Alice experienced imposter syndrome, which led her to work more than necessary and worry deeply about her performance- even when all evidence indicated she was excelling at her job.

Alice is now in a more fulfilling role that allows her to have the work-life balance she desires, while continuing to care for her own mental and physical health.


"When I reached out to Jen, I was struggling- as a busy scientist and mom of 2 young kids- with burnout, sleep deprivation, and weight gain. My efforts to improve my well-being were not panning out, leaving me with anxiety and low confidence about my ability to restore my balance and what specific strategies to commit to. I knew it was a good time for intervention because I was nearly ready to wean my 3yo and set better boundaries around sleep, and I wanted accountability and emotional support in prioritizing my health alongside my kids.

"Jen helped me hone in on specific goals and action steps that would have the biggest impact on these goals, and gave me the accountability and motivation I needed to follow through. I weaned my kid, enforced better boundaries around sleep, found a new exercise routine that fits in my life, and made a few shifts in my nutrition that reduced my anxiety about food choices and set me up for success each day. From this synergy I now have better sleep, better boundaries, a stronger and slightly lighter body, and more energy to tackle my many tasks each day. Moreover, renewed confidence it my ability to improve my health and well-being. I recommend Jen to everyone!"

LAURA C.


"Working with Jennifer was a partnership I didn’t fully understand how much I needed. I knew ‘how’ to be healthy, but I was suddenly dealing with a lack of focus, motivation and a lack of any day-to-day routine. With Jen’s guidance, support, and expertise, I was able to break down what was going on at work, assess the impact of remote work on my overall health and learned to make small, achievable goals.

"Her approach made all the difference. She took the time to understand my unique situation and challenges and helped me come up with near-term and longer-term goals that were both realistic and effective. Whether it was nutrition advice, workout plans, or strategies for managing stress, she was there every step of the way, providing encouragement and accountability. These achievable goals were a big deal for me as I think about all the things on my plate at once and was becoming overwhelmed.  Jen didn’t come in and say change this or change that, but helped me come up with one or two small things I could commit to in a two week increment. Each week we looked at these things and either adjusted or added new tangible goals. Rather than be overwhelmed with all the things I wanted to change, I was able to see progress in small increments vs. feeling like I wasn’t accomplishing anything. It may seem like common-sense, but I think Type-A women take on so much and try to do it all, usually at the expense of our mental and physical health.

"Thanks to Jen, I've started to develop (yes, I’m still a work in progress) healthier habits that are helping transform my mindset and overall well-being. I feel more positive, confident, and empowered to take back control of my work stress and create routines I can achieve. If you're ready to make positive changes in your life, I highly recommend working with Jen."  

NICOLE S.

Nicole fit squarely into that high-performing, type-A category of women who are at high risk for burnout. When she first reached out to me, she was struggling to maintain her health and mental wellbeing-while having recently ascended to a key leadership position in a federal agency, moving to a new place far away from her social network, and working from home 5 days a week. 

Nicole was exhausted, stress was piling up, and she often found herself working long hours or on weekends to keep up. She knew if she had more energy and focus, she’d also become more productive and be able to create better work-life balance. And she knew she needed actual human support if she wanted to step out of her comfort zone and truly change things.

Nicole made some key changes to her diet and exercise habits, and dropped her all-or-nothing mindset- she learned to be more forgiving of herself if she makes a 'mistake' or gets 'off track' with nutrition, exercise, or other goals- now she just gets right back to taking action. As a result, her energy and focus improved.

At work, Nicole realized and accepted what she has no control over, and began focusing her time and energy on what she CAN control. She set firmer boundaries, began confidently voicing her needs so she could get more support, and found her entire mindset shift around work. The stresses of her job hadn’t changed much, but things felt easier.

Overall, Nicole developed a keen awareness of what energizes vs. depletes her - helping her make better choices at work and in life. She began to deliberately say YES to more things, that energized her and found she had more emotional energy to tackle home DIY projects, go out more with her husband, and be more social.

THE HARD TRUTH:

THERE’S NEVER A BEST TIME TO START

Waiting for the perfect time? When everything is calm in your life and you’re finally ready to focus on YOU? I hate to break it to you, but that time is never going to come. High-achieving and type-A women always seem to have a lot on their plates.

But, you CAN start healing right now, amidst all the craziness in your life. You just need to jump in and start moving forward.

In THRIVE, you'll ditch burnout for good and create the life you dream about. It won't be easy at times, but it'll be worth it in every aspect: mind, body, & soul.

Don’t spend another moment stalking my content and re-reading this page.

If you know this is for you, trust yourself enough to take this step.